Working Together
At The Hamble School, we believe that strong relationships between home and school are essential to helping every child succeed. We value open communication and encourage Parents/ Carers to contact us whenever they have a question, concern or would simply like some clarification.
We understand that concerns can arise from time to time. In most cases, these can be resolved quickly and positively through a conversation with the member of staff who knows your child best. By sharing concerns early, we can work together to find the best way forward and ensure that your child feels supported.
This guide is designed to help you identify the most appropriate person to contact and explain what you can expect from us when you do. For information about making a formal complaint, please refer to the school’s complaints policy.
Why this matters
We know you value clear communication and want your feedback to make a difference. When the process feels unclear or slow, it can be frustrating and leave you feeling unsure about what to do next. By giving you simple, transparent steps for raising issues and communicating with the school, we aim to help you feel heard and supported.
Most issues can be resolved quickly when you know who to speak to and what to expect. This guide will support you to follow your school’s complaint procedure. Our goal is to keep the focus on your child’s education while building positive, supportive partnerships between you and the school.
Five Steps to Communicating Effectively with the school…
STEP 1: What Kind of Issue Is It?
Is it feedback? You need to be heard.
Sometimes you will want to share your voice with the school without needing them to respond, but you expect them to listen and take it on board. Feedback is often sought by The Hamble School via Parent Surveys, however, you can submit ideas or feedback to us at anytime via general@thehambleschool.co.uk
Is It a Concern or a Complaint?
Most issues raised by Parents/Carers are concerns rather than formal complaints.
A concern may be:
- A question about something that has happened at school.
- A worry about your child’s wellbeing, progress or experience.
- A request for clarification or further information.
- Something you would like us to be aware of so that we can provide support.
A complaint is an expression of dissatisfaction about actions taken, or a lack of action, by the school and is managed through the school’s formal complaints procedure after conversations and meetings with relevant members of staff.
Our aim is always to listen carefully and work collaboratively with families so that concerns can be resolved informally wherever possible.
STEP 2: Who Should I Contact?
All contact should ideally be sent via email, using the address: general@thehambleschool.co.uk and mark FAO the relevant member of staff.
Pastoral Matters
For concerns relating to:
- Wellbeing
- Friendships
- Attendance
- Behaviour
General pastoral support
Please contact the following in the order below:
- Form Tutor
- Progress Leader
- Senior Leadership Team Line Manager
STEP 3: Teaching and Learning
For questions or concerns relating to:
- Homework
- Progress
- Assessment
- Teaching and learning
- Subject-specific matters
Please contact the following in the order below:
- Class Teacher
- Head of Department
- Senior Leadership Team Line Manager
Other Matters
If you are unsure who to contact, please email general@thehambleschool.co.uk and we will be happy to direct you to the most appropriate member of staff. This helps ensure that your enquiry reaches the person best placed to help and often leads to a quicker resolution.
STEP 4: How Can I Help the School Resolve My Concern?
When raising a concern, it can be helpful to:
- Explain what has happened and when.
- Share any relevant information.
- Let us know how the issue is affecting your child.
- Tell us what outcome or support you are seeking.
- Allow time for staff to make enquiries where necessary.
- Avoid using AI as this often means the concern/ message is lost or unclear.
Our Commitment to Parents/Carers
When you contact us with a concern, we will:
- Listen carefully and respectfully.
- Take your concern seriously.
- Communicate openly and professionally.
- Seek clarification where needed.
- Investigate matters fairly and appropriately.
- Keep the focus on achieving the best outcome for your child.
- Work with you to find a positive resolution.
Some matters can be resolved immediately, while others may require further investigation. If this is the case, we will endeavour to keep you informed throughout the process. We normally respond within 48 working hours, but sometimes issues take longer to finalise.
STEP 5: Working Together Respectfully
We ask Parents/ Carers to work with us in the same spirit of partnership, ensuring that communication remains respectful and constructive so that concerns can be addressed effectively and positively. Our expectations regarding communication with the school are outlined in our Code of Conduct for Parents/ Carers and we encourage all families to familiarise themselves with our Parent Code of Conduct.
We recognise that there may be occasions where, despite open dialogue and careful consideration, Parents/ Carers may not agree with a decision made by the school. Our commitment is to listen to concerns, explain the rationale for our decisions and work collaboratively with families wherever possible. All decisions are made in line with school policies, statutory guidance and with the best interests and educational outcomes of the child at the centre of our thinking. By maintaining respectful and constructive communication, we can continue to work together positively, even when perspectives differ.
Tensions can run high when you’re concerned about your child, but some approaches make matters worse.
Using social media
Sharing your concern on social media can be harmful to those involved and will not lead to a quicker resolution.
Building a crowd
Other parents may share your views and concerns, but your concern should be specific to you and your child only.
Targeting People
Making it personal to individual school staff members can take things too far, keep it to challenging school policy.
Behaving aggressively
Abusive and aggressive behaviour will never be tolerated by a school and can lead to consequences for you.
Using AI
AI doesn’t always get it right when citing laws and can make a communication more complex than necessary.
Lacking partnership
Having a good relationship with your school is important and it benefits all to move on after complaints are resolved.
This guide should be read alongside the school’s Complaints Policy and Code of Conduct for Parents/Carers.
